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Tag Archives: #GaborMate

Why Everyone, Including Trauma Survivors, Wrongly Blames Trauma Survivors

by Dave Wernli

We have a nasty habit of blaming trauma survivors for the trauma they endured. In the church, outside the church, it makes no difference. We wrongly blame trauma survivors for the trauma perpetrated upon them through no fault of their own. Yes, unwise choices can put you in a situation where trauma is more likely […]

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