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Stop Dreading the Drama
of Extended Family GatheringsJoin Us for 6 Weekly Group Zoom Calls
Learn Practical Biblical Tools to Guard Your Heart Well
Enjoy Family Gatherings Again
Stop Dreading the Drama
Stop Fearing to be You
Show Up in Confidence
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Do You Dread the Drama?
Do you have extended family, even Christian family, who:
- Look down on you with judgement?
- Do all of the talking and none of the listening?
- Are control freaks and have to make sure everyone else is “doing it right,” from chopping celery to unwrapping presents?
- Have to “win” every conversation?
- Correct everyone else’s stories: “That’s not how it happened…”?
- Don’t let you finish a sentence?
- Judge how everyone else is raising their kids?
- Create chaos and ruin every family gathering?
When your extended family gatherings are a place of drama, jealousy, comparisons, judgments and criticisms, you feel powerless and invisible, not loved or cared for. You feel like you’re only valued for your usefulness and not for who you really are, not to mention all the fear and anxiety.
But you can change that.
How To Stop Dreading the Drama
1) Join the Zoom Group
2) Learn Practical Biblical Tools
3) Show Up in Confidence
Be Done Dreading the Drama
Let Us Teach You What We’ve Learned
We get it because we’ve struggled through dysfunctional family challenges. We’ve dealt with abusive narcissists. We know what it’s like to be only be valued for your usefulness, not who you really are. We’ve felt powerless.
But we’ve learned powerful tools for guarding our heart well. That gives us confidence going into dysfunctional family drama and toxicity, knowing we are equipped with tools to successfully navigate these difficult situations. We know our hearts will come out whole and intact.
We don’t dread the drama anymore, and you don’t have to either.
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Eric Samuelson
Ashland, VA
https://familyrestoration.us/
I have benefited from attending Dave and Janet's group in several ways. I am more attuned to hearing God speak to me personally, able to tap into and use God-given talents and better able to recognize opportunities He puts in my path in life. If you are at all thinking of signing up for Dave and Janet's zoom group, please don't hesitate. Since you are thinking of doing so, it is probably God speaking to you.
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Stop Dreading the Drama
Janet and Dave know that you want to look forward to extended family gatherings with confidence that your heart will emerge whole and intact. In order to do that, you need tools for guarding your heart well, even in hurtful family drama.
What you’ll learn in this group:
- How to guard your heart with levels of access.
- The 3 types of agreement.
- The 1 question that can reduce an hour argument to a 10-minute discussion.
- 4 models of communication styles.
- A 1-sentence template for healthy conflict.
- How to apply healthy boundaries without being controlling.
- The 2 most important words when setting boundaries.
- The 4 boundary quadrants.
- What happens when nothing works and what to do then.
So join the zoom group today.
You can stop dreading the drama and instead safely navigate your extended family gatherings confidently with your heart whole and intact. Let us show you how.
Because everyone deserves to look forward to time with family, instead of dreading it.
All the Details ...
Dates & Time
- 6 weekly group Zoom calls, approximately 60 minutes each
- Dates To Be Announced
- Typically 7:00 PM Eastern Time
- Replays available for one week after each session
- Join the wait list to jump into the next round (click the “Join the Group” button)
Benefits
- Access to Dave & Janet’s private Facebook group.
- Mentorship from Dave & Janet during the 7 weeks.
- Learn in a safe community of believers.
- Show up as your authentic self with confidence, even in family drama.
- A simple, practical, and effective template for communication in conflict.
- How to guard your heart well.
- How to honor loved ones who are behaving badly without being abused.
- How to set healthy boundaries without being controlling.
- Finally stop dreading the drama of extended family gatherings.
Price
- $600, average price for 6 family counseling sessions across the US (per Google, $100 per session)
- To Be Announced (previously $247)
- Full refund through first 14 days, no questions asked
Questions?
Email Dave at dave@IdentityInWholeness.com.